當我老了 , 不再是原來的我 .
請理解我 , 對我有一點耐心 .
當我把菜湯洒到的衣服上時 , 當我忘記怎樣系鞋帶時 ,
請想一想當初我是如何牽著你的手教你 .
當我一遍又一遍的重复你早已聽膩的話語 ,
請耐心的聽我說 , 不要打斷我 .
你從小的時候 , 我不得不重复那個我講過千百遍的故事 , 直到你進入夢鄉 .
當我需要你幫我洗澡時 , 請不要責备我 . 還記得小時候我千方百計哄你洗澡的情形嗎 ?
當我對新科技和新事物不知所措時 , 請不要嘲笑我 . 想一想當初我怎樣耐心地去回答你每一個 ” 為什麼 ” .
當我由于双脚疲勞而無法行走時 ,
請伸出你年輕有力的手攙扶我 .
就像你小時候學習走路時 , 我扶你那樣 .
當我忽然忘記我們談話的主題 , 請給我一些時間去回想 . 其實對我來說 , 談論什麼并不重要 , 只要你能在一旁聽我說 , 我就很滿足了 .
當你看著老去的我 , 請不要悲傷 .
理解我 , 支持我 , 就像你剛開始學習如何生活時我對你那樣 .
當初我引導你走上人生的路 ,
如今請陪我走完最後的路 , 給我你的愛和耐心 , 我會報以感激的微笑 .
這微笑中凝結著我對你無限的愛 .
November 12th, 2007 at 8:26 pm
好感人的 entry !! 读完之后真想哭
November 12th, 2007 at 10:19 pm
这提醒了我要好好地对待我的父母。
谢谢你。
好感人。
November 12th, 2007 at 11:47 pm
its a very touching post. it makes me reflect and think through how would i treat my parents when they grow old.
November 12th, 2007 at 11:55 pm
风姐
Well-said, this should go out and be read by all children->youths->adults with ageing parents….
The world will be a better and harmonised place is everyone is more tolerant…..
November 13th, 2007 at 12:26 am
Thank u YiFong Jie. I actually asked Dasmond in his blog abt this poem aft I heard it in your Shoot3 program. I’ll save it somewhere. Thanks again.
November 13th, 2007 at 9:10 am
我當時也淚流滿面
November 13th, 2007 at 10:33 am
I’ll also recite this to my son.
November 13th, 2007 at 11:00 am
我们也应给予他们关怀以报答他们给于我们的养育之恩。
回头看 有时是必要的 对吗？
向前走 不忘后头的 推动力。
November 13th, 2007 at 11:23 am
好感人的文章
這是現代老人的悲哀阿
November 13th, 2007 at 11:41 am
Indeed this is a very touching piece of work. I gonna share it with my mum and blog it to share it with my friends and credit your name beside it. (: Thanks for sharing!
November 13th, 2007 at 2:38 pm
现在的人不期待“养儿防老”了，只要他们以后不被“嫌弃”就足够了。。。但，年轻以后也会有老的一天吧？！
November 13th, 2007 at 3:22 pm
thanks yi fong for posting the poem!!
really appreciate it!!
November 13th, 2007 at 4:18 pm
权大妈，lala也有些感人的故事，就在你的旧东家（报业控股），有空的话，不妨去看看。。互相勉励！
November 13th, 2007 at 7:26 pm
怡凤, 这是我的心声, 谢谢! 我希望能谱上曲, 写成一首歌.让年轻人多了解老人, 给予关爱.
November 14th, 2007 at 2:05 am
hoooooo….. very well written…make sure that mei mei gets to read this ya….
November 14th, 2007 at 2:37 am
er….. y u sound like so emo??
cheer up bah.e quan yi feng we c not so emo one
*yay*shoot rox
November 15th, 2007 at 12:00 am
孩子出世了，妈妈其实就已经变老了。
老得没有自己，
老得没有尊严，
老得没有辨清是非对错的能力。
但，又有什么关系呢？
只要她开心啊，
就够。
November 15th, 2007 at 1:55 am
Is this letter written by yi feng jie?
November 15th, 2007 at 1:59 am
btw, I posted the video in youtube. You guys can watch it there
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIAg_KqE-i0
November 15th, 2007 at 2:26 pm
权大妈， lala在报业有了肯定，
‘邮频道~邮寄人间事’。。你要过去看看哦。。。
November 15th, 2007 at 4:27 pm
My husband’s old aunt once told us: dont scold the old for being dirty bec their eye sight has weaken (they were once cleanliness fanatics too); dont blame them for talking loud, they r not scolding but bec their hearing is now weaker…
i guess there is always a reason… if only we are willing to give ourselves some time to think over it and understand their situation better.
November 16th, 2007 at 3:38 pm
It’s very well written. 母亲的伟大是无法全部形容出来得。但是在怡凤文笔之下，她把母亲付出最真实的一面和心底最深处的感想描绘成章，非常感人。
“·……树欲静而风不止，子欲养而亲不待……”
November 16th, 2007 at 3:53 pm
当你在节目读出这段时,我也哭了.真的谢谢你把这段upload here,i want to share with my family and friends,thanks again
November 16th, 2007 at 6:20 pm
Very touching poem. This should be read by young and old.
Thanks for sharing, Yi Feng.
November 17th, 2007 at 12:37 am
very touching indeed. and is super true 我妈看了一定会落泪..
November 17th, 2007 at 9:50 am
很感动,回想起父母对我们的养育之恩.只有在他们有生之年,尽量陪伴他们.
November 17th, 2007 at 9:19 pm
i have really crying when i listen quanyifeng reading this on the TV show.Very touching…
November 17th, 2007 at 9:33 pm
权大妈, in one of the episodes of Shoot 3, you mentioned that the fortune-teller told you you’ll only live up to a certain age (i think it’s somewhere in the 40s?). Is that why you wrote that poem? I really hope you won’t be so superstitious and believe in whatever fortune-tellers tell you. 路是人走出来的。命也是人活出来的。希望你能撇开算命师傅所说的，不要一直以为自己一定只能活到40+ 或 50+ 岁。要拥有正面的信念才能带来正面的效果。不然，你的身体会因为你的意念而改变，以至呈现你所相信的结果。请你不要那么宿命，这会让支持你和爱你的人非常难过和心疼的。所以，希望从今天起，你能对自己和你周围的人说：“我会长命百岁，寿比南山的!” 加油，加油，加油！
Ron, give 权大妈 a break pls. She’s human too, and humans have emotions. In front of the camera, she already has to put on her whatever front that is required by the program, and it is usually a cheery and talkative one, since she’s a program host. Just because we may not see the “emo” side of her doesn’t mean she may not have one.
November 17th, 2007 at 9:54 pm
权大妈, a touching entry! Though in chinese but I have been trying my best to read coz u say we should be proud that we are chinese. Haha! This yr’s Best Host award cfm is urs lor.
November 17th, 2007 at 9:57 pm
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November 19th, 2007 at 9:56 pm
好感动哦~
我妈妈会这样就好~
November 21st, 2007 at 10:40 am
好感人的一封呀!!!!
November 21st, 2007 at 12:40 pm
虽然是看过了
不过还是很感人。。。
我发现了几个小“别”字。。。
呵呵
November 21st, 2007 at 2:09 pm
小凤凤你最近有点小偷懒哦。这篇转载的诗不算，你已经超过半个月没写东西了耶！希望你在出国当明星导游之前，交出新作品来慰藉一下你的忠实读者们空虚的心灵吧！
对了，还要恭喜你宝刀未老，至今还成功在榜上跟七个格格瓜分天下，继续加油！大家记得继续打电话支持小凤凤哦
November 21st, 2007 at 3:14 pm
很感人！是怡凤写的吗？
November 21st, 2007 at 3:39 pm
Nice article
Really touching and yah hopefully most of the people out there will remember to treat your family member and parent well. Coz they are the one who raise you up and nurture you to become a well human being. just like the apple tree story!
November 23rd, 2007 at 3:21 am
错, 这篇不是怡凤写的作品!!!! 是转载的呀!
文章择选自墨西哥《数字家庭》2004年11月号
English version of this letter.
http://parentswish.com/site02/big.html
November 23rd, 2007 at 4:52 pm
感人..感动..
November 23rd, 2007 at 7:18 pm
This article touches my heart deeply. It is short, simple yet able to express the many complex emotions each of us has.
November 23rd, 2007 at 10:21 pm
这是伟大的母爱，很多妈妈不知道怎样表达内心的感受，文章也是我的心声，很感动谢谢您！要加油哦！永远支持你！！！！！！
November 26th, 2007 at 8:57 am
其实,这一期的<>,我看过,很赞同有人说的一句话,”孩子对父母怎么样?是因为父母对孩子怎么样的?”这是上一辈做给下一辈人看的!!!
当你年轻的时候没有好好对待子女,没有好好对待你的父母,难道你还希望当你老了的时候,你的子女好好对待你吗?那是痴心妄想!!
February 18th, 2008 at 2:24 am
凤姐，
当天，听着你读出这封信时，我也一同落泪了。这几句是那么那么的真，旧旧在我脑海里回音着。反省着自己，很羞愧、很心痛。
谢谢你，分享这封简单，但发人深省的信。
“當我一遍又一遍的重复你早已聽膩的話語 ,
請耐心的聽我說 , 不要打斷我 .
你從小的時候 , 我不得不重复那個我講過千百遍的故事 , 直到你進入夢鄉 .
當我對新科技和新事物不知所措時 , 請不要嘲笑我 . 想一想當初我怎樣耐心地去回答你每一個 ” 為什麼 ” .
當我忽然忘記我們談話的主題 , 請給我一些時間去回想 . 其實對我來說 , 談論什麼并不重要 , 只要你能在一旁聽我說 , 我就很滿足了 .“
March 4th, 2008 at 1:22 pm
好感人…
March 27th, 2008 at 12:02 am
Hi 凤姐
偶然地来到你的 Blog, abit surprise! hehe… 我很喜欢看你主持的节目. You r so witty and cute! hehe… Keep it up and all the best!